Women seem to like a good session of dicking.

You see, the turned-on pussy is absolutely cavernous with many compartments and a variety of pleasure pathways.

A massage feels good, doesn’t it? So why wouldn’t it feel good to receive a massage in the pussy?

Now one may do so with one’s fingers but the musculature of the cock coupled with the absence of bones and nails makes it the perfect instrument for a pussy massage.

Plus, if you massage the pussy with your cock instead of your fingers, you can kiss her, allowing the hearts to connect fully in the merged softness of the lips.

That’s what a good session of dicking is. It is essentially a pussy massage.

I didn’t quite get this when I was caught up in a masturbatory life where Friction to Ejaculation was the name of the game.

I suspect that men who are obsessed with anal sex are permanently caught up in Friction to Ejaculation.

Do you know that in parts of Africa, it is common practice for women to stuff a certain kind of leaf in their pussy to dry it out before sex because the men prefer drier pussies?

So heartbreaking. For both the women and the men.

A roaringly alive pussy can be intimidating for a man who regularly treats his cock with roughness.

I remember one of the first moments in my life where my cock had shrunk into flaccidity while facing the roaringly alive desire of my woman.

That was while I was still caught up in the Friction to Ejaculation game.

I did not know any other use of the cock. Friction to Ejaculation, and peeing.

Now I know that it is the best tool available for a man to massage a pussy.

A good dicking is the only massage that is mutual. Cock massages pussy, pussy massages cock.

First, learn how to minimize failure modes for your cock. You wouldn’t want your tool to fail in the middle of your project, do you?

A failure mode is when you lose your hardness too quickly, often because of loss of the seed. Now, if you’re blessed with a short refractory period, you could make up for this failure mode and yet it would be like receiving a massage with the masseuse taking 10 minute snack breaks every 10 minutes.

Then, the key to a good dicking is all about leveraging the maneuverability of the cock by learning how to move the spine.

Different positions, angles, rhythms. Maintaining each for a while and then flowing into another.

Two human bodies are like two malleable puzzle pieces. Explore the variety of ways they could fit into each other.

Unlock your hips and learn how to move them.

Play your favorite sultry dance tracks and allow the musical ratchetiness to swivel your pelvic bone while your cock is plugged into her pussy.

Mmm mmm mmm. So good.

The swivel of the pelvic bone strokes the cavern in a variety of directions.

Then stay in and breathe with her. Breathe down to your cock in perfect stillness and fill her up with your breath and then empty it out.

There is room here to introduce soft intimacy—grazing cheeks, touching lips, till the wave picks up again and you continue snaking your spine so that your cock can dance inside her.

Slowly out, slowly back in.
Steady smooth strokes.
Jackhammers while you engage your core into a plank.
Lunging and moving in and out. One leg forward, then the other one.
A full deep squat to hinge back and forth.

Many rhythms to explore as you chat, share humor and good company.

Explore the art of a Good Dicking.